Salam petang selasa..
For u girl..
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30 hours ago, I escaped from being kidnapped
by Chin Xin-Ci on Tuesday, 29 May 2012 at 00:39 ·
As I sit here writing this, I am just so grateful to be alive.
To think that 30 hours ago I had a knife to my throat, face to face with the threat of being kidnapped and raped.
It was a Sunday, at 5.22PM. I was alone, walking towards my boyfriend's
car in level B2 of The Curve, Mutiara Damansara. He was not in town, and
I was running errands with his car. Just as I was putting my shopping
bags in the rear seat, the rear car door was slammed against my back,
and a meat cleaver was pressed against my throat. A man covered my mouth
with his hand, and whispered not to scream. He then shoved me onto the
floor of the backseat of the car and waved the cleaver at me, reminding
me not to scream. He was skinny, wearing a baggy turqoise blue t-shirt,
had a thick moustache and short curly hair, approx 5'8", mid-30s, and of
Indian descent.
At this moment, second man appeared. He was also in his mid-30s. He was
wearing a red t-shirt, had a crewcut, and was of Malay descent. He
grabbed my car keys and demanded for my parking ticket. I couldn't
remember where it was. They shoved me deeper into the car, and the
Indian man got into the back seat with me, while the Malay man got into
the driver's seat, driving us out of the carpark.
I told them they could take everything, just let me go. But at that
point they didn't even ask for money. Instead, the Indian man started to
make sexual advances. Then it hit me. "Oh my God. Oh my God. This is
really happening. I'm being kidnapped.. and I think I know what they
want."
From this moment on, there were a few crucial things that happened that I think is the reason I'm alive today.
1. I managed to get into a position to escape.
When they got into the car, the Indian man had tried to force my body
down onto the floor. I knew that the moment I'm on the floor, there
would be no chance of escape. So I begged him to let me sit up. I
promised him I wouldn't scream or alert anyone's attention. Thankfully,
he trusted me, and let me sit up, gripping my arm tightly. Then I told
him my arm really hurt and to please not grip it so hard. He loosened
his grip.
2. I did not fight for the sake of fighting.
I was in an enclosed space, with no clear escape route. I would never
win in a fight with these 2 guys, especially when they have sharp
weapons. Had I fought from the get go, I may not have been in a position
to escape. I might've even been knocked out cold, and God only knows
where I would be right now.
3. I was lucky and sneaky.
I knew that the only way to escape, was to jump out of the car, even if
it was moving. They had locked the car doors. So I leaned back,
pretended to scratch my hair, and shakily unlocked the door I was
leaning against. I'm so lucky they did not see or hear this!
4. I went 'crazy' at the right time.
And then I waited. I knew that the car would have to slow down outside
the parking lot, as it exits to merge with the main roads. The moment it
slowed down, I opened the car door and tried to make a run for it. I
failed. I kicked my legs out of the car, but the Indian man had managed
to pull my body back in. >From this moment on, everything is a blur. I
remember the Malay driver temporarily stopping the car, leaning over
from the driver's seat and attempting to close the door and pull my legs
in. At that point I remember thinking, "Even if I don't get out now, I
need to keep the door open and my legs out the door. At the very least,
it should cause a scene, and someone would see me. Or, the door might
hit another car and they'll be forced to slow down." So I continued
kicking. My right foot pushed against the wide-open car door to keep it
open. I recall elbowing, struggling, kicking, and even biting. I lost my
glasses, and was struggling blindly for my life. At some point the
Malay driver yelled, "BAGI DIA LEPAS! BAGI DIA LEPAS!" (Let her go! Let
her go!) and the Indian man loosened his grip. I made a jump out of the
still-moving car, and ran for my life.
5. I acted in spite of the fear.
My friends said I was brave. But I didn't feel like it. I was quivering
and shaking in fear. I was so afraid. I thought I was going to die. I
was weak with fear and deathly afraid. I truly thought "this was it".
But I knew I HAD to move. I had to run. Or there would be a worser fate
in store for me. While I was quaking in fear, I forced myself to look
around and see if there was any way I could escape, or even catch
someone's eye.
6. I remembered the people I love.
The only thing that matters when you're faced with potentially
horrendous fate, is the people in your life. When I felt the knife to my
neck, the first thing I thought was , "This cannot be happening. I must
be dreaming." The second? The people that truly matter to me flashed
across my mind. It sounds cliche, but it's true. I thought of my
parents. My brother. Khailee. Esther. More people. That's all I could
think of for a few moments, before I started brainstorming my escape.
I ran towards the Maybank outlet at the Curve. There were plenty of
people milling around. I screamed for help over and over again. I was
hysterical. I grabbed an older Malay man by his shoulders and begged for
help before practically collapsing at his feet.
I will always remember the relief and liberation I felt, running over Mutiara Damansara's manicured grass and into the crowd.
Today, I found out that the entire ordeal from the moment I left the
parking ticket payment machine, to my escape, happened in about 4
minutes. To me, it felt like one long nightmare.
We never think its going to happen to us... and then it does. I used to
think that this is something that happens only in the papers and to
people far, far removed from me. But then it did happen to me. I moved
to PJ/KL 6 years ago, and I've spent countless mornings, afternoons and
nights at The Curve. When my friends and I were organizing Rock Up! back
in 2008, we were walking around the place at 4AM even. It's been 6
years, and never once did I feel that I was unsafe at The Curve. Until
yesterday.
I feel like moving out of the country ASAP. Getting the hell out of this
state where you hear of a kidnapping or attempted one every month
(remember Nayati?), or a snatch theft every week. And yet I'm fully
aware of the fact that in another country with more lax firearm laws,
they would've been holding a gun to my head, not a cleaver. And that
would've been so, so much worse.
I'm Blessed. By God's grace, I am alive and relatively well. And I will
live another day to build another cat iPhone app. It just was not my
time to go. And for that, I thank God.
I want to share this story with everyone because cops tell me that they rarely get to hear it from someone who escapes.
Girls, be so very careful. Be vigilant, and please try not to go
anywhere alone. If you need to walk to the carpark, and you're alone,
get a guard to go with you. I was recently told that it's part of their
job description to assist anyone if needed.
Guys, watch out for your girlfriends, wives, mothers, sisters and
friends. Walk with them, don't take their paranoia or fear lightly.
Watch out for them.
And everyone, just watch out for each other. Take care of each other.
These things really DO happen. As I ran out of the car, so many people
came to help me. Strangers who didn't know who I was, came forward and
offered me tissue paper, water, cellphones, and general comfort.
Malaysians, please care for one another. You already do. Just keep on
caring. Keep watching out for each other. Don't worry about being
thought of as "busy body" or "overreacting". The world can be a cruel
place, but all it takes is for people to care for one another to make
all the difference.
Best Regards,
Sandra Ong
Export Division
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SINI ini..So ini peringatan utk perempuan yg suka berjalan sensorg dan utk diri I sendiri..
Kadang-kadang kita mmg akan jadi blur if benda tu berlaku, then kadang2 kita xsangka kita boleh bertindak sebegitu..tambah2 kita perempuan ni kan..sbb tu mak I selalu pesan jalan kat tempat yg ramai org... wuuuu kadang-kadang kalau dia xdpt call I, dia akan call Mr Pooh utk tahu kenapa i xjawab call..
Now dah jadi mak ni I pon pikir benda yang sama.. Bahaya yg menanti seorang wanita...
Nanti2 kalau ada masa, I akan cerita perkara2 yg boleh buat jantung berhenti berdegup utk beberapa saat..wuuuu
Sekali lagi, kepada wanita... BERHATI-HATILA..
